What are the effects of single parent dating habits on their children?
October 7, 2009 | 4 Comments
I have a friend who is a single mom to three boys all under the age of 10. In the last 2 years she has dated 4 men who she fell in love with quickly and made them part of her children’s lives. The boys bonded to each one and then suffered when the relationships ended. I was wondering if there are any good studies or books on the long-term effects of this pattern on the children.
Nothing good comes of that. Eventually the kids will refuse to get close to anyone. It really messes with their heads.
I think eventually they will all start acting out their pain. You have to remember, every time one of those guys leaves her the children feel rejection. It’s hard to build confindence when you feel like you are the reason no one will stay.
Sadly, a lot of women are very selfish and put their own needs ahead of the childrens.
What are the effects of single parent dating habits on their children?
October 7, 2009 | 4 Comments
I have a friend who is a single mom to three boys all under the age of 10. In the last 2 years she has dated 4 men who she fell in love with quickly and made them part of her children’s lives. The boys bonded to each one and then suffered when the relationships ended. I was wondering if there are any good studies or books on the long-term effects of this pattern on the children.
Nothing good comes of that. Eventually the kids will refuse to get close to anyone. It really messes with their heads.
I think eventually they will all start acting out their pain. You have to remember, every time one of those guys leaves her the children feel rejection. It’s hard to build confindence when you feel like you are the reason no one will stay.
Sadly, a lot of women are very selfish and put their own needs ahead of the childrens.
Dating divorced single parents?
October 7, 2009 | 6 Comments
it’s tough enough out there in the dating world but I’ve come to a tough conclusion about dating single parents and who to stay away from. Single parents come in all flavors. However not all are equal. The single mother who was walked out on by her husband is a good person to date. they have morals and really didn’t want the relationship to end but had no choice but to be a single parent. What i have a problem with are the single parents who were grown adults and had unprotected sex and just wanted a baby or really don’t care that the baby’s father isn’t in the picture or just decided that they were not the happiest in their marriage and went looking for the grass is greener. The single fathers who had an affair and left their marriage you should stay away from as well. I think that’s why it’s so hard to trust a single parent dating. you don’t know what their motives are or if they’re ok or just careless. agree or disagree?
and to all you single moms out there that it wasn’t really your choice to be a single mom but because he beat you up or left you when you wanted a stable family. I applaud you all.
WTF, you left off the one where your wife was the office Ho.
Dating divorced single parents?
October 7, 2009 | 6 Comments
it’s tough enough out there in the dating world but I’ve come to a tough conclusion about dating single parents and who to stay away from. Single parents come in all flavors. However not all are equal. The single mother who was walked out on by her husband is a good person to date. they have morals and really didn’t want the relationship to end but had no choice but to be a single parent. What i have a problem with are the single parents who were grown adults and had unprotected sex and just wanted a baby or really don’t care that the baby’s father isn’t in the picture or just decided that they were not the happiest in their marriage and went looking for the grass is greener. The single fathers who had an affair and left their marriage you should stay away from as well. I think that’s why it’s so hard to trust a single parent dating. you don’t know what their motives are or if they’re ok or just careless. agree or disagree?
and to all you single moms out there that it wasn’t really your choice to be a single mom but because he beat you up or left you when you wanted a stable family. I applaud you all.
WTF, you left off the one where your wife was the office Ho.
