Single parents dating..Any advice?
February 1, 2012 | 3 Comments
Hello..I am a 22 yr old single mom of a three yr old..Ive been single for nearly three years and for the first time, Im making an attempt at seriously dating someone. I met this person almost a yr ago and we hit it off from the beginning, and have been talking ever since. since the moment we met we had a strong vibe and liked each other alot we just had not chosen to take it anywhere till now, we both decided to give it a try and see how it goes..in all this time, he has never met m son and we barely talk about him..it bothers me and he knows it, but its something that were not trying to rush into since we just started a relationship a couple weeks ago..i dont know how im supposed to bring him into the equation and ive always just tried to not bring those two worlds together. like my son is one thing, and the guys i date another..i always said i would not bring him around every other random guy, only someone i really trusted and knew was special..is that wrong? what should i do and how long should i wait? i know he has a hard time coping with the fact that i have a kid and i know if i rush it i might drive him away, but i also need to know if he’s going to be ok around him because if not i dont want to waste our times any further..i really need advice from someone who knows and might have been in this situation before..thanks!
It’s really not that hard, since you’re son is still so little. Just go on a "family" type of date. Maybe an aquarium or a park, just so you can see how the two of them interact and let them go from there, don’t force anything, let it happen naturally. I understand that you wouldn’t want to bring your son around every "short term" relationship, that’s totally understandable. But keeping the worlds separate isn’t what i would do, at least in this situation. Personally, i would never have agreed to be in a relationship with him unless i saw how they interacted with each other and my child was comfortable with them. You don’t have to introduce them as mommy’s boyfriend, just as a friend. If the man wasn’t good around my child then that would be a major turn off for me. I’s also want a man that would want to have some conversations about my child, since my child is the most important person in my life. Then again, i would never have little flings or anything, i think once you’re a parent that kinda ends and you think about dating differently, but that might just be me.
Dating opinions for single parents?
June 9, 2011 | 2 Comments
Ok So I am a single mom and have been for 3-4 years now I work , I go to college and I take very good care of my son . I recently met someone I am veryyy interested in ! which is tough for me but he is respectful and has alot of qualities I love! My dillemma is i feel like i shouldnt be dating but I dont want to be alone for ever and its nice to have someone eventhough I am independent being alone isnt always fun lol
Well my mom raised me for 12 years alone. She got married wheb I turned 12 because she sis not wanna be alone. I did not want her to get married because I did not want a dad. I thought she was saying. That I was not good enought or better than him because I am her kid.,I hated the guy. Not because he did anything wrong but because he was stellung my mother. I still dont vb like himv. But, in my opinion I rather her have someone than be unhappy. So the point os if he makes you happy then enjoy the happy.
single parents dating?
March 15, 2011 | 1 Comment
is there any single parents mingleing?
Im a single parent who is dating. I am mingling too I guess. I am a single mom, age 29, with a 7 yr old son
As a Single Mom Will I Ever Find Love?
March 1, 2011 | 25 Comments
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Single parents dating…How do you make it work?
February 18, 2011 | 1 Comment
I’m a single dad with 2 little kids. I have dated around a little bit but, haven’t found anyone meaningful yet. All the single women I have dated do not have kids. So I was thinking that it would be nice to meet a single mom to date. That way we could have the common interest of kids. I’m envisioning something like the Brady Bunch! The only problem is I have had a hard time finding any single moms. Where do I look? I have heard of something called SingleParentMeet. Does that work?
I would try online dating, or PTA meetings…
