Does anyone share their experiences with online dating(like match.com)- any tips or thoughts on it as well.?
March 8, 2010 | 4 Comments
I have tried online dating like match.com- I have noticed a few things and I wonder if any other guys have noticed these things
or is it just me- also any females opinions or insight is welcome also.
I have noticed that
1) I have written to a lot of women& most do not write back
I get a very small response & sometimes unsolciited responses,
like some people say they are from africa or russia & I thinlk
they are scams.
2) alot of women don’t veen look my profile, they just look
at the email real quick.-why do they do this ?
is this the norm? Do guys have a harder time -like
many men writing to one woman ???
3) Its easy to get discouraged- is it worth it to spend my time ???
$0 Any other thought s on it ??
I have tried eharmony, yahoo, match, match international, some russian site, and had initial contact with hundreds 
before finally meeting THE ONE 
We have been married 2 years and I am in heaven. With that said here is the lowdown on each site and with all sites beware of lies and deceit….end anything if she is fast or they ask for ANY amount of $….never write to anyone without seeing a pic (it is indication of lack of sincerity and someone who is not open)
eharmony DOES connect people with accounts that are no longer active ( they were sending my info to people LONG after I closed account) – no wonder so many I wrote to wouldn’t reply
yahoo is filled with scams and COMMERCIALS disguised as people looking for dates
match will net the most contacts but you have to do all the screening to find the decent people
match international was filled with the most honest and decent people both near ( same town) and far (china) but again there are those to be wary of….no site nor any physical place in this world will be free of people who lie….i met both honest and fake people from russia and just about every other part of the world including my hometown and it is about the same mixture of good and evil everywhere…just use your instinct and take it slow…the biggest mistake is when a person thinks they will find someone quickly….best of luck
Women Using Men and Damping Them!
October 12, 2009 | 9 Comments
In most cases, now and in the past, many women have complained a lot about men refusing responsibility for women they make pregnant and leaving them to take custody of the children, especially in Africa. Things are slowly turning upside down.
Women have realized that they can equally do what men can do especially making it big in business. When they are financially stable, most women are opting for single lives. So they engage in relationships that lead to having babies that they are not ready to grant rights to their fathers to be custodians. They are therefore using men to have children and damping them without a heart.
Many men do not care about what a women feels when she is left all alone to bear a child that two mature people are involved in bringing into this world. It is simply painful for her. Sometimes men need to be treated the same way to experience what a woman feels.
But where is all this taking us anyway? By doing this who are we punishing here? The man responsible? The woman? Or the child. Why do we have to take our children through such insensitive conditions? We probably grew up knowing two parents, why do we want our children to grow without fathers? Especially when they have realized their responsibility. As much as we are punishing the men because they deserve it, let us also remember our children are human beings too. Why are you being so selfish as a woman. And for the men, why wont you take responsibility for a child you bring into this world?
If this world is on fire, then we are the people making it burn. Why don’t we be responsible people? Bear children responsibly and bring them up the Godly way. Let us change for the sake of our children and our future generations.
Married and Cheating, When your children unearth it!
In a marriage, it is all about a man learns the woman is cheating, traps her and confirms, or the woman does the same. At the peak of it, one of them blows up and can take it no more. And brings it to the open. What follows could be whatever.a divorce, fighting, calling each other names throwing insults to each other, in short, all hell breaks loose and the marriage is threatened.
But what if the children or the child is the one to discover, his mom or dad is cheating? I can not imagine the impact that would have to that child. All I know is that, the family would break up immediately because; the two parent would start fighting. The child’s life is never the same since he/she no longer sees the mum or dad the same again. Trust that was there is destroyed. I mean, this child’s life is destroyed all his life. But life must go on. When the child is all grown up, he may choose to bring it to the open or vice versa.
Most of the children would choose to hide it just to protect their family and live with the guilt of knowing one of their parents is a cheater. Most parent would do anything to beg the children not to tell their partners because they know the impact. So that family no longer lives in peace. If you asked me, I would rather we all become responsible people. If you as a man do not respect your woman, then she will never be the sweet woman you used to know when you decided she should be your wife. Same case to the woman. Love can be sweet if given a chance. Everyday can be a valentines day for any married couple that know what love is. In this site, unique dating is the key. It doesn’t have to be like the old same dating thing! Date responsibly; think twice before you do it. Have a heart.
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