How can a feminine gay guy find a date in Seattle?

September 5, 2010 | 2 Comments

First, if you’re straight I don’t want answers from straights. You will never understand gays.

I’m feminine looking where sometimes people wrongly assume I am trans. I’m not wearing any makeup. I just look fem. (Low testosterone I guess).

I know I look good, but most gay men are not attracted to me. They all seem to be going after the bears and jocks. The ones who look like body builders.

The only guys who like me are the very ones I find the most repulsive. Old grandpas with cigarette stained white mustaches, an ugly MARRIED Egyptian guy, and a very ugly Somalian guy who keeps annoying me outside the bars (he can’t even pay the cover!).

The weird thing is I get a lot of women after me, but I’m not into them. I even get phone numbers from lipstick LESBIANS!!! Guys tell me I’m good looking but then reject me every time when I say I want to make it go further.

I want a rugged straight acting guy who likes fem guys, but I haven’t found anything in 2 years. I don’t expect that much. Average look and build would be fine with me.

What the hell am I supposed to do? I don’t want to be some body builder to get anyone’s attention. I have lily white skin and soft fingers for God’s sake. I will not lower myself to going with a grandpa. Sex should never end with me throwing up in a bucket afterward. I’m about to give up completely.

Very lonely.

Join a online gay site & meet someone local. This way you can pick N choose & screen before you meet.

Be safe.