How can a feminine gay guy find a date in Seattle?

First, if you’re straight I don’t want answers from straights. You will never understand gays.

I’m feminine looking where sometimes people wrongly assume I am trans. I’m not wearing any makeup. I just look fem. (Low testosterone I guess).

I know I look good, but most gay men are not attracted to me. They all seem to be going after the bears and jocks. The ones who look like body builders.

The only guys who like me are the very ones I find the most repulsive. Old grandpas with cigarette stained white mustaches, an ugly MARRIED Egyptian guy, and a very ugly Somalian guy who keeps annoying me outside the bars (he can’t even pay the cover!).

The weird thing is I get a lot of women after me, but I’m not into them. I even get phone numbers from lipstick LESBIANS!!! Guys tell me I’m good looking but then reject me every time when I say I want to make it go further.

I want a rugged straight acting guy who likes fem guys, but I haven’t found anything in 2 years. I don’t expect that much. Average look and build would be fine with me.

What the hell am I supposed to do? I don’t want to be some body builder to get anyone’s attention. I have lily white skin and soft fingers for God’s sake. I will not lower myself to going with a grandpa. Sex should never end with me throwing up in a bucket afterward. I’m about to give up completely.

Very lonely.

Join a online gay site & meet someone local. This way you can pick N choose & screen before you meet.

Be safe.

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2 Responses to “How can a feminine gay guy find a date in Seattle?”

  1. Makayla Milan on September 5th, 2010 12:46 am

    Sadly this is something many homosexuals struggle with. I perform part-time as a female illusionist at nightclubs and bars, but in daily life when I’m out in public most assume I’m straight. I’m actually attracted to men of all types. I do find it comical though at how many men hit on me while I’m in face performing. They clearly know I’m a guy, dressing as a female. It’s just amusing really. It sucks that you have to deal with this, but if you lived closer to the east coast I’d be open to being friends and seeing where it went. So there are guys out there that don’t judge solely on how masculine or feminine you are. Best of luck! :)

    The Tall & Tantalizing
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  2. jason on September 5th, 2010 1:11 am

    Join a online gay site & meet someone local. This way you can pick N choose & screen before you meet.

    Be safe.
    References :

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