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Shay Your Date Diva answers a fellow Diva’s video and other plus size Divas who complain about not getting a man because of their weight.
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Sweetie I will help … Sweetie I will help you. Your are not less than anyone else. and there are guys your age who would find you beautiful. Make an email or IM appointment with me through my website, ok?
With Love
Shay Your Date Diva
GamingQueen88 on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
I’m a fat girl, and … I’m a fat girl, and I need help. I’m 21, and my prospectors are 45+. All younger men look at men like I’m disgusting and even question why I have confidence because I ain’t cute and that I need to stop wearing trendy clothes and trying period. Being spit on by a 27 yr old man because I wasn’t a real woman in his eyes tore my confidence down. I slapped him for it though.
NeyxChaos on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
I’m not saying … I’m not saying about all of the big women, but most of them keep complaining about their weight, so I tell them that if they truely wanted to loose weight they would be out there trying. But that’s no reason to kill yourself working out, love who you are and work to better yourself physically and mentally<3
lovein30days on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
I married one … I married one before I met my husband but his insecurities ABOUT his weight turned me off. It wasnt the weight, it was the way he felt about himself. There are big, bold and beautiful people with confidence all over the world who are attracting the opposite sex with no problem.
SYDD
LiLW0LF on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
But would you love … But would you love a big man?
ioverstand on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
fat women could … fat women could rule the earth if they wanted too cuz if you fat and you sexy thats every mans dream right there especially fat ethnic women cuz deep down most dudes just wanna hit that fat from the back you feel me. im a dude so im just speaking from expierence
disneydiva21 on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
im from la and i … im from la and i visit nv so i feel your pain
killarmani on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
Good let them run, … Good let them run, so the right one can step up!!
Wilmrbadguy on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
Well I may have to … Well I may have to make a video vlog about this
jazzieplay89 on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
Im normally not … Im normally not attracted to them… Their either older, unattractive, or just not someone i cant see myself with period. So thats why i say i have this problem… simply because the guys i do like or tend to be attracted to isnt even looking my way. I still respect your opinion though. However I feel as though EVERYONE try to make EVERY big girl in the world seem as though they dont have confidence.
jazzieplay89 on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
Im not saying your … Im not saying your wrong… but smaller women always seem to think that bigger women always complain about guys not approaching them, as if ALL bigger women have confidence issues. Like i stated before I think well of myself. I know that im a good young lady inside and out. And if you ask me we all have insecurities about something. But thats not the issue at hand. I’ll say this then to kinda give you a clear picture of the portrait im trying to paint. Guys that do tend to approach me,
Tycee4eva on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
Yes, you are right. … Yes, you are right. Dead on. Something that I have to work on.
lovein30days on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
Sweetie,
You have … Sweetie,
You have watched enough of my videos to know that I know better, right? Show me a confident woman and Ill show you a woman who can attract any man she wants. Its just that some insecure woman pretend very well to be confident but still show their insecurities around men. Men can sense a woman who puts on as being confident. Confidence as I stated in the book is reflected as an invisible “It” factor every DIVA posses.
SYDD
Tycee4eva on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
Mrs. Shay Garrett … Mrs. Shay Garrett let me tell you. What if I were to tell you that I have confidence? It’s just what happens.
Although I do agree with agressive females because I used to be that way, but on the descreet.
But yes.. let me reference back to your book again. I need to re-do everything.
lovein30days on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
They approach your … They approach your friends and not you because your friends love themselves and men are attracted to confident women no matter what size they are!
Shay Your Date Diva
lovein30days on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
No woman big, small … No woman big, small or what ever should be aggressively approaching guys. They look at you crazy because they think you are desperate! Confident women/ DIVAs sit back and let the fish come to them. Size has nothing to do with attracting men…period:)
With Love
SYDD
jazzieplay89 on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
Why do you think … Why do you think its you?
Tycee4eva on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
I am completely … I am completely with you. I just don’t know. I have friends bigger than me who grab the dudes.
Maybe it’s just me. . .
jazzieplay89 on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
Well Im a big girl … Well Im a big girl And i think highly of myself, however I do have this problem. I’ll admit I have my days when im not really feeling myself, but the next day that feeling is out the window.. And i tend to be a lil aggresive and the guys i approach look at me like is she serious?? Im not saying no guys like big girls, but most of them really dont… or maybe im just in the wrong state according to your stats. lol
Minordd3 on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
So true
I dated … So true
I dated two men who LOVED big girls. I mean I’m thick. They liked BBW website chicks. Why? Those woman had the meat and the confidence. What those two loved in a woman. And they were some FINE men just had issues. That’s why they’re now x’s.
JayJayGrady4U on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
….wow ….wow
ioverstand on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
man i love fat hoes … man i love fat hoes. come holla at me for a pic
057tallica on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
FAT ASS FAT ASS
XxBrendyxX on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
Thats true girl !!! Thats true girl !!!
jaysha90210 on
December 31st, 2009 5:25 pm
Girl I know thats … Girl I know thats right. That’s true alot of big girls do think that way cause i did. I grew up when my own mama talked about me, but awake up call arosed that i was plus size but very beautiful, once i realize that lots and lots of men offer me many things you wouldnt amagine.thats why when people such as yourself give advise like that i no longer need it, but i will show this to many people who does.
www.lovein30days.com
Sweetie I will help …
Sweetie I will help you. Your are not less than anyone else. and there are guys your age who would find you beautiful. Make an email or IM appointment with me through my website, ok?
With Love
Shay Your Date Diva
I’m a fat girl, and …
I’m a fat girl, and I need help. I’m 21, and my prospectors are 45+. All younger men look at men like I’m disgusting and even question why I have confidence because I ain’t cute and that I need to stop wearing trendy clothes and trying period. Being spit on by a 27 yr old man because I wasn’t a real woman in his eyes tore my confidence down. I slapped him for it though.
I’m not saying …
I’m not saying about all of the big women, but most of them keep complaining about their weight, so I tell them that if they truely wanted to loose weight they would be out there trying. But that’s no reason to kill yourself working out, love who you are and work to better yourself physically and mentally<3
I married one …
I married one before I met my husband but his insecurities ABOUT his weight turned me off. It wasnt the weight, it was the way he felt about himself. There are big, bold and beautiful people with confidence all over the world who are attracting the opposite sex with no problem.
SYDD
But would you love …
But would you love a big man?
fat women could …
fat women could rule the earth if they wanted too cuz if you fat and you sexy thats every mans dream right there especially fat ethnic women cuz deep down most dudes just wanna hit that fat from the back you feel me. im a dude so im just speaking from expierence
im from la and i …
im from la and i visit nv so i feel your pain
Good let them run, …
Good let them run, so the right one can step up!!
Well I may have to …
Well I may have to make a video vlog about this
Im normally not …
Im normally not attracted to them… Their either older, unattractive, or just not someone i cant see myself with period. So thats why i say i have this problem… simply because the guys i do like or tend to be attracted to isnt even looking my way. I still respect your opinion though. However I feel as though EVERYONE try to make EVERY big girl in the world seem as though they dont have confidence.
Im not saying your …
Im not saying your wrong… but smaller women always seem to think that bigger women always complain about guys not approaching them, as if ALL bigger women have confidence issues. Like i stated before I think well of myself. I know that im a good young lady inside and out. And if you ask me we all have insecurities about something. But thats not the issue at hand. I’ll say this then to kinda give you a clear picture of the portrait im trying to paint. Guys that do tend to approach me,
Yes, you are right. …
Yes, you are right. Dead on. Something that I have to work on.
Sweetie,
You have …
Sweetie,
You have watched enough of my videos to know that I know better, right? Show me a confident woman and Ill show you a woman who can attract any man she wants. Its just that some insecure woman pretend very well to be confident but still show their insecurities around men. Men can sense a woman who puts on as being confident. Confidence as I stated in the book is reflected as an invisible “It” factor every DIVA posses.
SYDD
Mrs. Shay Garrett …
Mrs. Shay Garrett let me tell you. What if I were to tell you that I have confidence? It’s just what happens.
Although I do agree with agressive females because I used to be that way, but on the descreet.
But yes.. let me reference back to your book again. I need to re-do everything.
They approach your …
They approach your friends and not you because your friends love themselves and men are attracted to confident women no matter what size they are!
Shay Your Date Diva
No woman big, small …
No woman big, small or what ever should be aggressively approaching guys. They look at you crazy because they think you are desperate! Confident women/ DIVAs sit back and let the fish come to them. Size has nothing to do with attracting men…period:)
With Love
SYDD
Why do you think …
Why do you think its you?
I am completely …
I am completely with you. I just don’t know. I have friends bigger than me who grab the dudes.
Maybe it’s just me. . .
Well Im a big girl …
Well Im a big girl And i think highly of myself, however I do have this problem. I’ll admit I have my days when im not really feeling myself, but the next day that feeling is out the window.. And i tend to be a lil aggresive and the guys i approach look at me like is she serious?? Im not saying no guys like big girls, but most of them really dont… or maybe im just in the wrong state according to your stats. lol
So true
I dated …
So true
I dated two men who LOVED big girls. I mean I’m thick. They liked BBW website chicks. Why? Those woman had the meat and the confidence. What those two loved in a woman. And they were some FINE men just had issues. That’s why they’re now x’s.
….wow
….wow
man i love fat hoes …
man i love fat hoes. come holla at me for a pic
FAT ASS
FAT ASS
Thats true girl !!!
Thats true girl !!!
Girl I know thats …
Girl I know thats right. That’s true alot of big girls do think that way cause i did. I grew up when my own mama talked about me, but awake up call arosed that i was plus size but very beautiful, once i realize that lots and lots of men offer me many things you wouldnt amagine.thats why when people such as yourself give advise like that i no longer need it, but i will show this to many people who does.