How to Achieve Success on Your First Date
February 18, 2010 | 2 Comments
First date should not be a terrifying experience but it should be something exciting that will create good memories. Most people who are preparing for this special day are always anxious because they do not want this special event to turn into a disaster. Achieving success on your first date is not as difficult as you think it is if you know how.
Here are some tips to achieve success on your first date:
Do not expect too much. The number one source of disappointment is expecting too much. It is not about lowering your standards but it is about setting realistic expectations to avoid disappointment. Sometimes we fall into the trap of expecting our dates to be someone we want them to be and then get frustrated if they are not. You are trying to mold them to fit into your “ideal mate” standard than trying to discover their different traits that might be better than what you set as ideal. The less expectation you have of others, the more you can accept who they really are, and the happier you will be on your date. To achieve success on your first date, set realistic expectations.
Decide where to go on your first date. For men, you should decide where to go and take into consideration the preference of your lady date. Ladies, it is polite to take into consideration the capacity of your male date. Choosing the right place for your date is another key to achieve success on your first date. It is best to pick a low key or casual place for your date to avoid too much pressure and the surrounding is ideal for a good conversation. Coffee shop is still a good place for first date where you both can talk casually. Avoid going too cheap like fast foods and avoid too extravagant places that you cannot afford because you might end up eating the cheapest list on the menu. Be realistic and be creative.
Dress better than usual. This is your first date and of course you have to create a good lasting impression. Do not neglect your hygiene and you should smell good. Wear clean and ironed clothes, clean finger nails, well kept hair and polished shoes. Wear something new, a new shirt, a new dress or a new bag. It doesn’t have to be expensive but making an effort to wear something special on your first date will make her or him feel special too. Achieving success on your first date should start with your looks or appearance.
Listen and do not talk too much. Do not fall into the trap of talking too much about yourself, stop talking once in a while and listen to what your date is saying. It is a conversation not a monologue so you have to give him/her the chance to talk and listen. Choose light topics for your conversation, first date is not the time to talk about exes and heartaches, it should be light and fun. Having great conversation is another key to achieve success on your first date.
With good planning and being yourself, there is a high chance that you will achieve success on your first date. If you are running out of ideas for your first date, choose from these hundreds of dating ideas visit 300 Creative Dates
To know more about love, dating and relationships visit All About Relationships
Gerry Restrivera
http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/how-to-achieve-success-on-your-first-date-755427.html
Jah Cure – Never Find (Official Video) [HQ]
February 17, 2010 | 25 Comments
This is Jah Cure’s official video for his next single and Caribbean smash, “Never Find.” Big tune!
Duration : 0:3:28
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February 17, 2010 | 4 Comments
First date is always a nerve wracking situation and of course you do not want to leave a bad impression especially on this very special day. You are probably anxious and you cannot stop the butterflies in your stomach but you still need to come into your senses and avoid those first date mistakes men usually commit.
Here are the common first date mistakes you should avoid:
Don’t be late. This is the number one first date mistake that you should avoid. You should be punctual and it is not cool to keep your date waiting. Your date is also nervous like you and it makes her more anxious if you keep her waiting. It is impolite to let the girl wait for you. Be respectful and arrive on time.
Do not let your nervousness rule over you. Being clumsy is another first date mistake you should avoid. Manage your worries or anxiousness. Keep your presence of mind, stop worrying and thinking about the outcome of this date. Just enjoy the moment; first date should be exciting and enjoyable.
Do not forget to dress properly and groom yourself. First date for women is a big deal and most women make an effort to wear their best dress with matching shoes and bag. If it is a non-formal date, a casual polo-shirt and nice pants will do. Be sure that your clothes are ironed and clean. Get a haircut if you think your hair is too messy and wear polished shoes. Your nails must be clean and short. It is important to appear clean and smell good. She will feel really special if you put some effort on your looks or appearance and besides it feels good to look good.
Do not forget your manners. Of course you have to prove that chivalry is not yet dead and there are still good-mannered men who treat women like a princess. It is a first date mistake to assume that modern women no longer appreciate little things like opening doors, pulling chairs and saying please. Women always want to be treated with courtesy and respect.
Don’t be too ambitious. If you want to impress your date on a five star hotel, that would be fine if you really can afford it but it is a big first date mistake to pretend that you can afford a fancy restaurant and then later on run out of cash to pay all the bills or end up eating the cheapest food on the menu. You cannot relax and enjoy if you keep worrying about the bills.
Don’t be too cheap. Fast food is not good for your health and it is also not good for your first date. It is not a joke, eating on fast food is one first date mistake that you need to avoid. If you are low on budget you can be creative, right? Cooking for her or bringing a thermos of coffee and blanket at the park while talking and watching the stars is more romantic than sitting in a fast food eating fries.
There are a lot of first date mistakes that you need to avoid to make a good lasting impression but the most important thing is to enjoy the date and look forward for more dates with the girl you’ve always wanted. Are you running out of ideas on your first date? Do you want to find a dating idea applicable to your style and situation? Choose from hundreds of creative dating ideas visit 300 Creative Dates
To know more about love, dating and relationships visit All About Relationships
Gerry Restrivera
http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/first-date-mistakes-men-should-avoid-what-you-need-to-know-751924.html
Why is it almost difficult for men to find a date?
February 16, 2010 | 9 Comments
I am an Asian in SE Michigan and it is pretty impossible to find dates – not only for me but to many others aswell. Is there a prejudice or, color or other issue at play or is it true with all men?
Yep! Its because your asian in SE Michigan. Now if you were a sheep, then you wouldn’t have a problem getting a date in Michigan.
If the Buddha Dated: A Handbook for Finding Love on a Spiritual Path
February 16, 2010 | Leave a Comment
If the Buddha Dated: A Handbook for Finding Love on a Spiritual Path
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