Single parents dating..Any advice?
February 1, 2012 | 3 Comments
Hello..I am a 22 yr old single mom of a three yr old..Ive been single for nearly three years and for the first time, Im making an attempt at seriously dating someone. I met this person almost a yr ago and we hit it off from the beginning, and have been talking ever since. since the moment we met we had a strong vibe and liked each other alot we just had not chosen to take it anywhere till now, we both decided to give it a try and see how it goes..in all this time, he has never met m son and we barely talk about him..it bothers me and he knows it, but its something that were not trying to rush into since we just started a relationship a couple weeks ago..i dont know how im supposed to bring him into the equation and ive always just tried to not bring those two worlds together. like my son is one thing, and the guys i date another..i always said i would not bring him around every other random guy, only someone i really trusted and knew was special..is that wrong? what should i do and how long should i wait? i know he has a hard time coping with the fact that i have a kid and i know if i rush it i might drive him away, but i also need to know if he’s going to be ok around him because if not i dont want to waste our times any further..i really need advice from someone who knows and might have been in this situation before..thanks!
It’s really not that hard, since you’re son is still so little. Just go on a "family" type of date. Maybe an aquarium or a park, just so you can see how the two of them interact and let them go from there, don’t force anything, let it happen naturally. I understand that you wouldn’t want to bring your son around every "short term" relationship, that’s totally understandable. But keeping the worlds separate isn’t what i would do, at least in this situation. Personally, i would never have agreed to be in a relationship with him unless i saw how they interacted with each other and my child was comfortable with them. You don’t have to introduce them as mommy’s boyfriend, just as a friend. If the man wasn’t good around my child then that would be a major turn off for me. I’s also want a man that would want to have some conversations about my child, since my child is the most important person in my life. Then again, i would never have little flings or anything, i think once you’re a parent that kinda ends and you think about dating differently, but that might just be me.
Things to talk about on first date, single parents?
January 13, 2012 | 4 Comments
Okay. So, I am going to be going on a date with a guy that I really like. We are both single parents and neither of us has even tried dating since our splits with the other parents quite a while back. We’ve hung out a few short times and conversation usually ends up going to our kids. I am okay with that. But, I think I just get nervous and go blank on things to talk about.
When we go on our date, what are some conversation topics that might help?
You could talk about your families, not your children, but your parents/siblings/backgrounds.
Talk about where you went to school/ or your jobs.
Current events.
Upcoming holidays.
Sports or hobbies that you are into.
Interests or charities that are important to you.
Movies or shows that you like.
Hope this helped. Have fun on your date.
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January 8, 2012 | 3 Comments
I am single parent and i am looking for a website for dating for single parents
I would look into scoretoscore.com or eharmoy I think you have to pay for harmony and I know scoretoscore.com is a free site .. You always got facebook also.
what are some free lesbian single parents dating site?
January 1, 2012 | 2 Comments
im lukn for FREE dating sites for single lesbian parents?? any ideas?
Try a free dating site that offers a different angle to online dating. Best is Friends Match Me dating site. It is completely free. You can find out if other members have mutual friends with you or similar Facebook Likes! Also they have member videos too!
A lot of people say they met their gf/bf through another friend. Friends Match Me helps you do that.
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August 9, 2011 | 7 Comments
hi, im a single dad. i have noticed most of the dating sites here are for younger single adults, how about for single parents dating site? i need a recommendation
you try http://www.Lovefindsme.com , only one i know of. or look for a blog or forum and what they say about other dating sites.
