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According to recent numbers, 40 million Americans have jumped into the online dating pool. The amount of usage and particular dating agencies varies per individual of course but even with taking these things into account, online dating is becoming more comfortable and accessible to the general population. For instance, Online Dating Magazine estimates there are over 120,000 marriages per year that are a direct result of internet dating. These numbers are only going to grow as the online dating becomes more interactive
Unfortunately there is a flip side. Many of us have heard or seen the stories about online hookups that have gone tragically wrong. While these incidents remain in the definite minority, they do exist.
Many free online dating services have yet to implement a screening process. The result is you really do not have any guarantees about the other person you are trying to meet. But let us face it; even if they prescreen applicants thoroughly, people have been known to lie. This means the responsibility of online dating safety falls squarely on to your shoulders. Use the following tips as guidelines and then later on add more of your own.
1. Good Judgment
None of us is perfect so you can never be right one hundred percent of the time but trusting someone online that you just met with the most intimate details of your life is not a good idea. In fact, it is downright dangerous. Trust has to be earned offline so the same should go double on the internet. If you sense the person on the other end is lying, then there is a strong likelihood they probably are.
It is not only the lack of telling the truth that should set off bells and whistles. Maybe they seem a little too aggressive in their answers or way too anxious to meet you immediately. Whatever the case, keep your thinking logical and your common sense on high alert.
2. Go Slow on Sharing Personal Information
You have probably seen those online dating profiles where the person volunteers every bit of their personal information including the exact hour they were born. Eventually you are going to share things like your phone number and home address but do not rush it. Also make sure your signature file is turned off or at the very least, it does not have any identifying information. Do a little bit more chatting and investigating.
3. One Phone Call Away
Okay so you both agree that it is time to hear each other’s voices. Now you are still in the investigation phase so do yourself a favor and call from a public phone (no need to give your cell phone or home number just yet). You should be able to get a better feel for the other person by having a phone conversation. Do you sense something in their tone or words that make you uneasy? Are the answers a little too perfect for your taste (i.e. telling you what they think you want to hear?). After you hang up do some serious analyzing. If you have to talk it over with someone close to you, than by all means do so.
Online dating is the new wave and it can be a lot of fun but to get the most out of it, you must include safety as one of your top priorities. There are other steps that you should follow but start by going slow with sharing your personal information, the phone conversation and above all exercise good judgment. Keep in mind that it is better to be unhurried and overly cautious, than to let your emotions rush you into a bad situation.
Daryl Campbell
http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/internet-dating-online-3-ways-to-make-sure-you-play-it-safe-257071.html
The Best Places for a First Date
October 30, 2009 | 18 Comments
The first date is your opportunity to make a positive impression and in order to make a good impression you must be prepared. Perhaps the biggest decision to make beforehand is where to take your date.
Below is a list of suggestions, some of which have checklists to help you prepare for that activity, as well as some handy hints.
RESTAURANTS
As a venue, restaurants provide a great way to get to know someone. Choose a place you know so you will be more comfortable. It’s also very cool to call a waiter by his first name. If you haven’t got a favourite place already, choose a place with the help of the checklist below.
If you can, do something like see a movie together before you go to the restaurant. This way you have something to talk about. Going for a walk (for example, along a river or through a park) is also a good idea and will allow you and your date to build up an appetite.
1) Ask your date if he/she has any special eating requirements. He/she may be vegetarian or vegan, or not eat meat but eat seafood.
2) Choose a place based on recommendation — Ask people you know.
3) Check out the location beforehand.
4) Consider the time — Lunch is the best choice for a first date as this helps keep the date casual and relaxed.
5) Take the menu and prices into consideration — The offerings should easily fit your budget.
6) Find a place with good lighting — If it’s too bright, that pimple that sprung up an hour ago will stand out like a lighthouse, making its owner want to sink into oblivion. Too dark and you may not be able to see your date drooling over you.
7) Consider the noise factor — Make sure it is easy to talk. After all that’s the reason you are there.
Choose a venue with both efficient and friendly service. (And your waiter shouldn’t be a clown called Ronald McDonald.)
9) Find out whether you will need to make a reservation.
10) Consider the dress code at the venue and dress to suit.
11) Apply the Style-Plus-One principle — The principle is this: You go one step better than the next person when it comes to your style/look. Say, if you were at a venue that, on a scale of one to ten, the style/look required was a six, you would aim to be a seven.
12) Don’t choose a venue that is too small. A tiny room could make you and/or your date feel claustrophobic.
If you have decided to pay for the date, give your credit-card number to the restaurant beforehand (either during a preliminary visit or when you make a booking). This way you won’t have to deal with the bill on the night (which can sometimes be slow and can also lead to an awkward moment with your date if the question of who pays arises.) It is also likely to impress your date.
Have them add a 25% tip (misers cringe here) to the bill, which should ensure good service during the date. When you do this, introduce yourself to the person taking the booking, ask his/her name and remember it, and be friendly. Then on the night you can say hello and use their first name. They will hopefully use your name too as they should remember someone who has prepaid!
A MOVIE
One of the most common and safest first dates is seeing a movie. If you choose a movie you both enjoy it will help the date. But beware of choosing a movie that is a dud as it may be a date dampener. Another downside is that seeing a movie doesn’t give you much time to talk and get to know each other.
1) Make a considered movie choice, as everyone has different tastes, so choosing a movie can be difficult. Selecting certain movies can also create a false impression and/or mood for the date. For example, a confronting psychological thriller like Silence of the Lambs may depress your date. Or a relationship movie like Pretty Woman may put undue pressure on a first date. So come up with a few movie ideas, ask your date which movies he/she likes and choose one between you.
2) Select a cinema. Choose a movie that is close to a place where you can have coffee/supper or a bite to eat together afterwards.
3) Arrange a time.
4) Apply the Style-Plus-One principle.
5) Book and collect tickets ahead — This saves queuing and if the cinema has reserved seating you can reserve good seats ahead.
6) Budget for cinema junk food. Make sure you have enough cash for coke, popcorn, etc.
Also plan to have a coffee/supper or a bite to eat afterwards so you can talk to each other. The movie will most likely spark conversation. If you can afford it and you want to make a really good impression, some of the newer cinemas have deluxe seating. You could book two of these deluxe seats ahead. Don’t raise your expectations — extra expense does not guarantee a successful date.
A STREET FAIR OR MARKET
This could be fun and is a good idea help keep the first date relaxed and casual. Find out dates and places where they happen. Wear comfortable clothes and shoes, as there may be a bit of walking involved. (Remember to apply the Style-Plus-One principle despite the casual nature of the activity.) Walk at the same pace as your date so they don’t end up trying keeping up, or stopping to let you catch up.
Perhaps plan to visit the fair/market after a pleasant Sunday drive in the country. If you do this, remember to make sure your car is clean beforehand and have good music on standby for the drive. You could also hide a picnic hamper in the trunk/boot of your car so when your date says he/she is getting hungry you have a wonderful surprise waiting for them.
A WALK ALONG WATER
This is more of a day date than a night date unless the walk is well lit and it is a warm summer night. The walk could be along:
- A pier — Some piers have facilities, shops and places to eat. You could sit and enjoy a coffee as the boats sail by on a lazy Sunday.
- A lake or body of water with a track around it
- A beach
- Any water/river promenade
Wear comfortable clothes and shoes, as there may be a bit of walking involved. (And still apply the Style-Plus-One principle.) Walk at the pace of your date so they don’t end up feeling rushed trying to keep up, or having to stop as you catch up. Budget for a coffee or bite to eat and take some cash. And if required, take sunglasses, sunblock/sunscreen, insect repellent and a hat.
A STAGE SHOW OR MATINEE PERFORMANCE
If you can afford it, this is great for a first date. Also, because it is during the day, it absorbs some of the stress that can come with a night-time date. Make sure your date will like the show you plan to see. Book ahead if you need to. Take cash for interval drinks/snacks. Take cash for a show program. Apply the Style-Plus-One principle. Research the performance beforehand.
Plan to have a coffee or a bite to eat afterwards so you can talk to each other. To start the conversation, ask your date what he/she thought of the show.
MUSEUMS OR ART GALLERIES
Venues like these offer plenty of opportunities for conversation. There is less likelihood of silences because there are plenty of visual stimuli to spark conversation and share opinions on. Also, admission may not be expensive, which is useful if you have budgetary constraints.
Pick a museum/art gallery before the date. Find out opening times. Book ahead if necessary. Budget for admission, snacks and a possible memento gift from the gift shop. (There is usually a marketing shop on site). Wear comfortable clothes and shoes, as there may be a bit of walking involved. Still apply the Style-Plus-One principle.
Research the artist/display beforehand. Make sure you allow space for your date to speak. Some people are reluctant to offer opinions in case they sound silly. If you feel this is happening pretend you don’t know as much (play dumb) as you actually do and this should encourage your date to speak up.
If you have lots of expertise/knowledge on what you are viewing, share your wisdom graciously. Watch out you don’t turn into a loudmouth show-off. Also, walk at the pace of your date so they don’t end up feeling rushed trying to keep up, or having to stop to let you catch up.
COCKTAILS/DRINKS
Organising to meet someone for a drink is highly recommended as it often means a relaxed situation that suits many people, especially if staged after work. Also, it gives you a chance to test the water, so if things are going well you can suggest continuing the date over dinner.
Apply the Style-Plus-One principle. Choose a bar that isn’t known as a singles bar — a singles bar may be distracting and uncomfortable, reminding you both of your single status, which may add stress to the date. Make sure there is a nice place to eat that is within easy walking distance of where you are having your drink; that way you have the option of continuing the date if it is going well. Don’t drink too much — It is a first date and you need to keep your wits about you.
A PICNIC
This date can require a bit of work, but the rewards can be fantastic. Lying on a blanket with your date enjoying nature outdoors in a great location can be a great inhibition destroyer. Lying down relaxes people and being outdoors in the sun having a picnic is about the only situation you’ll lie down with someone so quickly on a first date.
Only plan this during a warm weather season. Check the weather forecast beforehand — You don’t want a date from hell because a twister passes through your picnic, launching you and your date skywards to do some mid-air bonding with a startled cow called Mabel! Plan an alternative activity — Have another option for the date on standby in case the weather isn’t suitable. Lunch at a cafe or restaurant would be an obvious choice, but it could also be having the picnic on your lounge room floor.
Apply the Style-Plus-One principle. Wear casual clothes with shoes/runners to do an activity in. Bring a clean blanket — A proper picnic blanket would be the best choice. A couple of beach towels would also do. Warning: Damp bums can kill a sexy mood! You may have a perfect day, but if the ground is a bit damp, your date may end up with a damp bum. Bring a plastic sheet and lay it underneath the blanket before you sit down.
Bring a picnic basket — This is the first choice but a box would be okay. Bring a Frisbee or a kite — If you both have the energy this is a fun way to work off the meal. A gentler choice is to go for a stroll. Choose a nice location — This is one of the two main keys to success. If you get the location right the date has the right foundation and could potentially be perfect.
Martin Chandra
http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/the-best-places-for-a-first-date-82952.html
What are some dating tips for a young teen who has never dated or kissed before?
October 28, 2009 | 13 Comments
i need some tips about what to do when you’re dating, flirting, kissing and stuff like that. all my friends have kissed and dated but i’m so nervous around guys. help me be more comfortable with them. also, i need some appearance and odor tips (odor…you know…stupid puberty) to work with to get this guy to want to go out with me. HELP!
ummmmm well first off you should shower regularly, stay clean, shave & such… deoderant is helpful. maybe a light perfume or fragrance, watch some movies, kissing comes naturally… try to be yourself and dont worry about impressing guys, if they really like you then you woint have to try hard. don’t be scared, have fun, wait untill the time is right – you’ll know.
good luck!
What are some dating tips for a young teen who has never dated or kissed before?
October 28, 2009 | 13 Comments
i need some tips about what to do when you’re dating, flirting, kissing and stuff like that. all my friends have kissed and dated but i’m so nervous around guys. help me be more comfortable with them. also, i need some appearance and odor tips (odor…you know…stupid puberty) to work with to get this guy to want to go out with me. HELP!
ummmmm well first off you should shower regularly, stay clean, shave & such… deoderant is helpful. maybe a light perfume or fragrance, watch some movies, kissing comes naturally… try to be yourself and dont worry about impressing guys, if they really like you then you woint have to try hard. don’t be scared, have fun, wait untill the time is right – you’ll know.
good luck!
